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How to Lessen the Risk of Teen Car Accidents

August 10, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment

It’s your teen’s birthday, and suddenly you’re panic-stricken—they’re old enough drive. Take a breath and remember that, by getting involved, you’ll lessen the risk of teen car accidents.

Teach Your Children Well

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  • Set a good example. It’s the best thing you can do for your teen when teaching them how to drive. If you don’t want them to talk on the phone or speed, don’t do these things, either! Get the message across that your teen should do as you say and as you do by demonstrating safe driving each time you’re the one behind the wheel.
  • Take your teen out to practice. The only way they’ll master the art of driving is by taking the wheel.  Give them as much supervised practice as you possibly can.
  • Make sure they’re covered. Accidents can and do happen, even to the best drivers, and car insurance for teens will give you—and your young driver—greater peace of mind.

Responsibility and Rules of the Road

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Set some ground rules before handing over the keys. These can include:

  • Not having passengers
  • Driving only in the daytime

You want to make sure your teen has a good grip on the basics of driving before they take on the added responsibility of passengers. Having friends in the car is an immediate distraction. In fact, research shows that with each passenger in the car, a teen’s risk for getting into an accident increases. Once you’re sure your teen can responsibly handle peers in the car, you can increase the amount allowed one by one.

Likewise, a teen’s risk of being involved in a crash is greater in the later hours. At first, it’s wise to only allow your teen to drive when it’s light. Again, eventually you can allow them to drive later—once they’ve proven that they drive safely and responsibly.

Don’t Be Afraid to Be Tough

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Being a parent can mean making some unpopular decisions. In the case of driving, this can mean setting tough regulations and determining when to take the keys out of your teen’s hands. Your teen may have reached the age when it’s legal for them to drive, but only you can determine if they’re truly mature enough to take on that responsibility.

To avoid some rough patches down the road, consider creating a contract with your teen before you give them the freedom to take the wheel. Come to an agreement on when they’re allowed to drive and what to do in case they’re too tired to drive. Agreeing to pick up your teen if they’re in need of a ride without asking questions until the next day can make your teen comfortable enough to call you if that’s what they truly need to do.

Having your child out on the road can be scary to any parent. How did you feel letting your teen drive for the first time? What safety rules do you always enforce?

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Hearing Loss can be the Result of Second-Hand Smoke

July 15, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment
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There are so many adverse side effects of second-hand smoke that everyone is well schooled in them. However, studies are still being done and new effects are being discovered all the time.

One newer studydone by Dr. Anil K. Lalwani, a professor of otolaryngology and pediatrics at the NYU Langone Medical Center, says second-hand smoke exposure also causes irreversible hearing loss. 

It’s not the only adverse side effect, just the latest one, and it agrees with previous studies done on the subject. Children raised in a home with second-hand smoke are more prone to get Otitis Media, a middle-ear infection that eventually clears up without leaving behind any permanent damage. Not so when Otitis Media is caused by second-hand smoke; the damage is irreversible. 

Tender Ears are in Danger 

Smoke being directly blown into the ear has been known to cause infections, but, unlike those infections, this loss of hearing is caused by the chemicals in the smoke that are breathed and then introduced into the blood stream. Then in normal blood flow, the chemicals are taken to the middle ear where irreversible damage is done. 

More research needs to be done, but it’s been long known that breathing nicotine smoke is dangerous and causes cancer along with a myriad of other maladies. But, this is new and important information to be added to the list. 

All parents in the civilized world should know by now that cigarette smoke is dangerous to children, teens, adults and even animals. It does damage that’s irreversible in so many ways that still it’s being studied and analyzed, decades after being started.

 

Filed Under: Drugs, Family Support, Parenting, Teen Development Tagged With: NYU Langone Medical Center, Otitis Media, Passive smoking

Best Cable Channels on TV & How to Get Them All

July 13, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment

Getting the best cable channels all in one place is easier than ever before. Whether you are looking for lighthearted programming for your family, serious news reports during turbulent political times, or your teen just wants to enjoy his/her favorite musical artists, www.direct.tv offers access to hundreds of channels on a large number of portable devices to meet your viewing needs.  This is your guide to the best programs that the whole family can enjoy (yes…even your teen!).

HBO Family

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When you’re searching for commercial-free television for your family, HBO Family is an ideal option. You can put your children in front of this channel and walk out of the room for a few minutes knowing they won’t be exposed to inappropriate images.

Your choices on HBO Family include programming for preschoolers, movies with ratings of G and PG for school-aged children and evening programming to be enjoyed by the whole family. After the children have gone to bed, HBO Family presents programming with mature content minus the objectionable language or images.

CNN

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For access to both national and international news, CNN is a premier channel. With a large number of reporters traveling the country and the globe, CNN is the channel to turn to during elections and other political events.

When natural disasters strike, CNN is one of the first networks to rush to the scene and get as close as possible to affected areas. For people with families living abroad, CNN is a necessary channel to stay on top of the latest occurrences related to political uprisings, health-related issues or calamitous events.

MTV

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For musical entertainment, MTV is one of the more popular channels. From Lady GaGa to Justin Timberlake to Shakira, MTV gives you access to the latest music videos and news about music celebrities. Whether you love America’s Best Dance Crew, Teen Mom, MADE or Jersey Shore, MTV is one of the most entertaining channels on television.

BET

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When in search of a more soulful musical channel, go to BET. You’ll see some of the same musical artists as seen on MTV, but with more of an emphasis on rap and R&B. BET shows include 106 & Park, American Gangster and Changing Lanes.

One of the more popular shows on BET is the hilarious Everybody Hates Chris, based on the life of Chris Rock. In addition, with shows like Keeping It Rich, you’ll stay on top of financial advice from host Sakina Spurell and her financial advisors.

CMT

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For country music lovers, CMT is a must-have channel, featuring news and videos of country music artists. Garth Brooks, Kenny Chesney, Miranda Lambert and Sara Evans are just a few of the popular country artists you’ll find on CMT.

On this country music television channel, you have access to shows like CMT Top 20 Countdown, CMT’s Next Superstar and CMT Crossroads.

TLC

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On TLC you’ll find something for everyone in your family. Learn how to bargain shop by watching Extreme Couponing. Brides to be can benefit from watching Say Yes to the Dress, a program that helps women prepare for their weddings.

For fashion advice, TLC offers What Not to Wear in which style experts help women turn their fashion mistakes into a more appealing appearance. This funny show allows you to sit back and learn what not to do as others are criticized for their fashion felonies.

For more serious programming, check out the lives of six couples as they prepare for parenthood in A Conception Story. Addictions are also explored in television programming called My Strange Addiction.

HGTV

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HGTV is for anyone interested in household renovations, real estate explorations and arts and crafts projects. Carter Can tackles difficult home improvement projects. Colors Splash focuses on infusing dull rooms and homes with exciting and transformative colors.

Curb Appeal gives you ideas for how to revamp the look of your garden and landscape. In Selling New York, you get a feel for the cut throat and competitive real-estate environment of New York and how agents go about closing major deals.

Cinemax

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When you’re ready to dive into the world of movies, Cinemax is an ideal choice. Thrillers, dramas, comedies and more may be found on Cinemax. Whether you’re looking for an older and fanciful movie such as The Princess Bride or a newer and more serious film like Invictus, instant access to the movies lets you sit back and enjoy your afternoon or evening.

CONCLUSION

If you want a premium service that gives you access to all of these channels and hundreds more, DIRECTV does exactly this. From a variety of packages ranging from 150 to 285 plus channels, you will never be at a loss for something to watch.

What’s more you have access to the latest technology. Record favorite shows and switch from one room to another in the middle of the show. If you like to watch shows while riding on a bus or standing in long lines, you have that option on your iPad or cell phone. When you combine your favorite shows and channels with DIRECTV, there’s never a dull moment.

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Girls More at Risk for Behavioral Problems if Mom Doesn’t Work Outside the Home

July 10, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment
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It’s an argument as old as dirt. Kids need two parents, with one of them staying home to take care of kids and the house. Healthier, more well-adjusted people come from homes where one parent takes care of the home and the kids. Well-behaved children come from homes where one parent raises themand the other works. 

Wrong. Many studies have been conducted in the last several decades, and the information coming out is that the old school of thought is valueless. 

The study was published in the 2010 Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health. Senior researcher at University College London, Anne McMunn, PhD, reports that there are no detrimental child’s behavior associated with the mother working outside the home. 

Girls are More in Danger of Behavior Problems 

In fact, the studies strongly suggest that children in homes with two working parentsseem to fare the best. However, the studies also suggest that for some reason, girls are twice as likely to have behavioral problems at age 5 if the mother stays home. No such effect has been discovered for boys. 

McMunn said that working mothers should not feel guilty leaving their kids to work. Mothers worry about the emotional development of their children, when in actuality, they’re doing their kids a service by working outside the home, in regards to additional income for the family and positive effects on the children. 

The latest study looked at information when the children were infants, when they were three and again at five years of age. It’s a UK study, but children are children, and the study results are likely in any country.

 

 

Filed Under: Family Support, Parenting Tagged With: Behavior, Parent, University College London

What Will my Child go Through in Treatment? What Should I Do?

July 2, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment
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What’s it like in treatment? What will my son/daughter have to go through? Will I be welcome to visit my child? These are just a few of the questions that go through a parent’s mind when they find out their child needs treatment. 

The first thing a teen’s parent needs to knowis that visiting is often not allowed at first. Addicts spend the first period of time getting used to their new surroundings and learning how to live without getting high or drunk. This no-contact period can take from a week to a month, depending on the treatment center’s policies. 

Upon admission they’ll be assigned a treatment team that includes counselors and doctors. These people will be key in aiding the addict’s new walk in life, starting with treating withdrawal symptoms and cravings. 

What‘s Next for my Child? 

The teen will learn what triggers are and how to prevent relapse upon exposure to them, with the help of a counselor. Balance in life is taught, whether for food, drink or our thoughts; all aspects of life. 

The treatment team will teach the teenager skills in reconnecting with important people in his/her life and they learn to focus on important things. Each stage of treatment requires the addict to rely on family and friends to help, create positive behaviors, identify high risk triggers and use coping mechanisms. 

The very best, most important help a family member or friend can offer a recovering addict is to be there for them. Listen to them, encourage healthy lifestyle changes and help them to rebuild their lives. Always be there when they need support.

 

 

Filed Under: Parenting, Teen Development Tagged With: Adolescence, Child support, Health

How to Make Sure Your Baby Equipment is Safe

June 12, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment
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The days of borrowing baby equipment to save money or even to hand down treasured items from generation to generation is largely gone now. In days past, you could count on being able to borrow that antique crib that had been in your family for years. With the expansion of the safety features that you will find in almost every new crib sold in the United States today, your baby will be far safer in a newer model.

This does not mean that you must do without the antique crib of your dreams, however. You can find a number of companies that make models of cribs that closely resemble those that are antique in nature. You will find the same timeless good looks and clean and sweeping lines in these new cribs as well as the assurance that they have met the latest in safety testing that is required by law. In many cases, you can purchase an entire suite of nursery furniture in the antique design that you like.

Car seats are another item of baby equipment that you should not borrow unless you know the history of the seat very well. For example, you will need to be sure that the car seat has not been involved in any sort of accident. This can weaken the structure of the seat itself and make it unsafe. You will also want to make sure that the car seat has not expired. Car seat manufactuers can only ensure that the safety materials that make up their seats are viable for a certain amount of time.

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Keep Math Skills Sharp Over the Summer

June 2, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment
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Many parents are concerned that their children seem to lose some of the skills that they have learned during the school year while they enjoy their summer vacations. While some loss may be unavoidable, there are some things that parents can do to help their kid’s skills stay fresh during the long summer break. The tips that follow are just a few ideas to get you started. You will likely be able to use them as a jumping off point for more ideas of your own.

To keep reading skills sharp over the summer, make use of your local public library. While these buildings are a great place to find books of almost every type that will suit people of every age and interest, many also offer a variety of different reading programs for all ages. These reading programs typically reward kids for reading books during the summer. For each book that they read, kids are give a prize of some sort. If your child is too young to read alone, you can read to him for the summer reading program.

Math skills can be kept sharp by using a variety of different games. Card games can be used in order to practice a number of different math skills without kids even realizing that they are learning. Games such as War help a child to learn number recognition. You can also tailor the game so that your child practices her addition skills by having her choose two cards and adding them together. The player with the highest sum wins the round.

Filed Under: Parenting Tagged With: Academic term, Educational software, Summer Reading Program

When Your Child Wants What Everyone Else Has

April 28, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment

At some point in your parenting experience, you’re going to come up against the dreaded words, “Mom, you have to buy me this pair of jeans (or this shirt or these shoes) because everybody is wearing this now.” When this happens, and, again it will happen, what are you going to do?

Why, you’re going to do exactly what every other parent in your position has done. You’re going to march right back into your room, pull up your favorite online resources, and reread the articles about how to handle this situation. Then, you’re going to march right back out there to your child and say the words he dreads to hear: “Let’s talk about this.”

When you do talk to your child about why it’s so important to have a specific type of clothing, find out what he really thinks about it. For example, he may really like the way the fabric feels and how well the clothing fits. If this is the case, he may be surprised to find that LRG clothing is the perfect solution.

You’ll like knowing that LRG clothing isn’t all that expensive. You’ll also appreciate the fact that there are clothing items for very casual wear, for recreational use such as snow skiing and water activities, as well as woven shirts which look neat and will go well with both jeans and more dressy pants.

You never know, your child might be the one to start the next trend. Before you know it, everyone will be asking him where he got his LRG clothing, and you’ll be the coolest mom ever!

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Furniture Shopping Tips for Parents on a Budget

April 25, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment

Budgeting is an unfortunate concept. Each day becomes an exercise in saving as you tighten your spending and plan out how your budget needs to be plan. You — like so many parents — must spare every penny.

And this makes shopping for furniture a challenge.

Trying to create a look worthy of Atlanta apartments (without spending an excess of dollars) is no easy task. It can be accomplished, though, if these suggestions are noted:

Classic Styles

Trends are meant to appeal: they move through the seasons, tempting with their patterns and designs. Such designs can fade shockingly fast, however, and the consequence is disaster. It’s imperative that parents seeking to furnish their Atlanta apartments avoid the momentary. Choose styles that aren’t defined by a specific theme (leave those instead to wall colors and minor decorations).

Durable Materials

Accidents are all too frequent in homes filled with children, pets and harried parents. This means that you’re guaranteed to have stains and lots of wear and tear. Be sure to select items that are durable. All pieces should be able to withstand the years — rather than being shaped from too delicate materials that have to be replaced again and again. Consider wood frames and easy to clean fabrics.

Secondhand Relief

When it comes to finding the right furniture for you, remember to set a budget beforehand. As you begin your search, remember that you don’t have to buy furniture new. Choose instead to search through consignment stores, yard sales, online classifieds, and thrift shops. The prices will be considerably less.

Use these tips to have a look that is worthy of your style and your wallet.

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Are you a bad parent?

April 24, 2011 By admin Leave a Comment
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Every parent would like to believe that they are doing their very best for their child. However, sometimes, even you best isn’t enough. A child deserved good nutrition, education, a safe environment and a morally sound upbringing among other things. Even though you may not excess at all these things, this doesn’t imply that you are a bad parent!

However, there is a certain kind of behavior that is completely against the tenets of good parenting. Here are some things you should absolutely avoid in order to be a good parent:

  1. Physically abusing your child is a criminal offence. While parents do ‘spank’ there children to discipline them, this should never be with such intensity that it causes unbearable pain or trauma.
  2. Never use foul language against your children. Verbally abusing them can have a bad psychological affect on the child, not to mention that you will be setting a poor model to follow!
  3. Don’t ever reprimand your kids in front of others as this causes humiliation that can lead them to lose their self-esteem.
  4. Don’t complain about your child to others, especially when the child is around as this also causes a lot of embarrassment to the child is not constructive in any way.
  5. Comparison with other children is not a great way to encourage your child to behave better, it will only make them feel unloved and degraded.
  6. Never fight with your spouse or anyone else in front of your children as this sets a bad precedent. It is important for children to believe their parents love each other.
  7. If your kids see you lying, they will do it too!
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